So I got an email from an attractive man on one of those singles/dating sites, of which I am a member of almost all. He claims to have a high security research position for a senate subcommittee and that he can't date casually because of his job. He has his picture and detailed profile posted on at least one site yet he can't talk on the phone but can only email or IM. What???? Ugh!! Why do guys play games?! That is the stupidest thing I have ever heard!! So what is he going to do in the courtship part of a relationship if he can't do long talks at night? I guess its a creative way to get out of talking on the phone but still! I don't understand how you can post your profile and pic on several public dating sites yet not be able to call a girl you are interested in because of security reasons? Whatever!!!